Have this place that feels like it should 100 percent giving he. Whatsapp to book, notify them when I arrive, they unlock door, very very little draping, as close to the junk as they can get without touching. I give them all the signs I am enjoying and would like more, but I get nothing. What am I missing?

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      5 months ago

      Asking right off of the bat when you’re in the lobby or on the phone is absolutely a no no. But once you’re on the table, asking in the right way doesn’t seem to be out of bounds.

      Just do it in the right way. Don’t be an aggressive asshole about it and take no for no. Don’t let them take advantage of you though, if you aren’t getting what you want, don’t be afraid to say no thank you. And if you end a massage without getting additional service? Don’t be afraid to not tip like you didn’t get additional service. For me, that means that if you’re paying 60-70 for an hour massage, a 30-40 tip is fine. Don’t be a cheap ass trying to give them 10 or anything like that, but don’t pay them for service you didn’t receive. For my area, bare minimum for additional service is 60, so keep that in mind. It can obviously vary depending on your area and your tolerance for being assertive. Just don’t be an asshole about it.