I think that scenario would be bad for us. Too much attention, too many fronts. I kind of think that if is actually better for monero to grow slowly without crazy tulip manias. The utility of monero is there for anyone with eyes to see. Also, going around screaming “freedom! privacy!” gives a bad look to outsiders. It “boxes us in” in a category in people’s mind of libertarian fringe movement. That is a repellent just on it’s own.
I agree with your points.
My speculation is that we need to provide more “broken down tools” instead of the full thing. Haveno works because the use case is very well defined. Other different types of markets (goods, services, gambling) and moderation setups not so much.
I myself am thinking of building some tools in this direction. Glad to see other are having thoughts in the same direction.