I attended a mini reunion recently with three women I had been close with when I was a teen and into my early twenties. Two of them were married now and one of the husbands had rented a house for the weekend. This was the first time all of us had been in the same room together for many, many years.
I made the drive over and when I showed up the two husbands were sitting inside. They were polite, if not a bit tired looking. I headed out back to where the ladies were all sitting. Two of them were drinking. From the looks of things they had been drinking for awhile before I showed up. We had some laughs about the old days and we did a round of “where are they now?” trying to figure out what happened to the other members of our crew. Eventually the topic switched to sex. Some people get very chatty when they drink, I’m sure you all know how that goes.
One of the women I had dated back then, She was the first, last and only women I ever went out with who was absolutely disgusted by sex. Apparently things had not changed, as she was pretty open about how she was not into it at all and really never had been.
One of the other women bragged about how once a year on his birthday she gives her husband a BJ. She said it as though she was generous and proud of that. I cringed. She also made fun of guys who jerk off to porn, mimicking the motion with her hand and making a face.
The third woman said “I’m over it” in regards to sex, and said how she had not had sex since her baby was born. That “baby” was now in high school. I asked her, very gently, how her husband felt about that. She shrugged it off and waved her hand dismissively.
It was getting near 8:00 p.m. and I made an excuse to get out of there. I drove about 15 minutes up the road to a parlor I had seen while on my way there. Parked and went in and was thrilled to be greeted by a cute girl in her late twenties. Was led into the back and got undressed. She came in and saw the stack of twenties and the condom I had left out, and she got undressed. Her pussy looked amazing, neat and totally shaved bald. I decided to go for some DATY. She was young and cute, it was a huge turn on. She did some BBBJ and we started out in doggy. I felt lucky to be pounding away on this cute young girl. Switched to standing missionary and again I reveled in her beauty, staring at her while I slipped in and out of her. Eventually I pulled out, slipped the condom off and spurted all over her stomach. She looked up at me and smiled and I grabbed some of the paper towels on the table and cleaned her off. Again she looked up at me and smiled. We still had some time left and she offered a massage for the remainder.
On my way out I decided to tip big. I had had a great time and was happy and I wanted her to be happy. I pulled out some tip money and handed it to her, then pulled out a little more. She looked back at me like “Really??”, I nodded and she took the money, smiled and leaned in and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I drove home in a good mood, euphoric and relaxed, appreciative of all the AMP women I see. Glad not to be married to anyone who gives a blow job once a year or someone who has no sex at all.
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Just a quick note, I’m not implying all women are like these old friends of mine. I was just shocked frankly in the moment.
I wonder if your three friends are actually more like the norm, since it seems to be socially acceptable for wives to deny sex from their husbands, or at least not interested anymore.
I’m personally not burnt out like those guys that you met but I’m in the same situation as they are with my own marriage. Hence the lurking in r/HappyEndingMassage 😁
I wonder that also, how normal is it? I’m familiar of course with people kind of burning out on each other in a marriage, and the sex goes out the window and they either get divorced or settle into a different kind of partnership I guess. But I was actually kind of shocked to hear these women talk the way they did. It was so hostile and dismissive. It was ugly.
I’m just guessing, but one of the guys does not seem like someone who does not have sex. He makes a lot of money at his job and I suspect he may be seeing escorts or have something on the side. Like why would he just accept one blowjob a year? That’s absurd. He does well at his job, pays for everything. I feel like he gets some on the side and is discreet about it. Again, I’m just guessing there.
None of them have any idea I go to parlors and pay for sex with asian women of various ages. So maybe it’s the same for him.
The other guy seems totally spent. Just burned out. I really can’t imagine he’ll go on like that once their kid graduates and moves out. I feel like he will snap eventually.
I don’t understand how anyone could let their relationship get so bad where this is just no sex. Maybe if you’re old old, but even then I would think there would be some.
Personally, I think she (the 3rd woman I mentioned) hates her husband, or at the least resents him. I’ve kept in touch with all of these people to varying degrees over the years, but for whatever reason a bunch of us have never gotten together. Anyway, I had heard the way she talks about her husband before. I think she resents him for getting her pregnant. A mutual friend once asked her if she had thought about divorce and she apparently replied with “Nope, we are locked in now”. Meaning they had the kid now so she thought they could not separate.
I think she uses the “no sex” thing as a way to get back at him, as messed up as that sounds. I ran into him about 5 or 6 years ago and he seemed pretty burned out back then also. I barely talked to him at this get together, but he did not seem well. I’m not certain why anyone would want to live like that. Honestly, I think he will reach his breaking point and leave her. Maybe after the kid graduates high school, but there is no way he is going to go on like that forever, IMO.