Forgive me for the title and the post if it doesn’t follow established rules and terms, I’m still new to all this.
After the new year I’ve started frequenting AMPs. And I have had a good experience getting the typical L1 HJ experience. But I’m interested in more intimate services. Not FS, that doesn’t interest me much but more what I would call L2+. DFK, PM that isn’t rushed and rough, TUMA/DATO, and BBBJ.
I’ve managed to get FIMA easily enough but they are rushed and rough which hasn’t done anything for me. I want something slower and more methodical. Same with BJs. The one I’ve gotten has been a CBJ with plastic wrap and had so much teeth that it was not worth it.
I’m looking for something better. A slower and better FIMA or PM, and even what I consider the Holy Grail, a nice slow PM and DATO. Combined with either a BBBJ or a CBJ that isn’t just plastic wrap.
How have other mongers managed to get this? During the flip and deed I have become more direct in what I want but I still haven’t gotten exactly what I want. Does anyone have any tips? I am thinking about maybe going 90 min versus an HR and bringing my own flavored wrap, but does that plus more explicit instruction make sense or should I do something else? Is there anything that I should do with the wrap before hand? I’m in a medium sized city so these additional services aren’t advertised openly if that helps.
Oh yeah I definitely get that. I wasn’t clear. I wasn’t asking how to convince some place that is HJ only to do more.
My question is for a place that for example does offer CBJ, what things should I know and do to try to get what I want? Like for example, the one time I’ve gotten a CBJ, it just wasn’t good. Plastic wrap, too much teeth, not deep enough and no other action for anything outside of the shaft covered by that plastic.
For HJ for example, if you want a PM there are things you can do before hand like body grooming, body language during like raising up during brushing and putting your legs up and simple verbal queues like “lower” that can get you what you want. Are there things similar to that you can do before and during a CBJ or a BBBJ to get a better BJ, PM and even something like a TUMA?
asking them to do more than they are willing to? I am not sure if it is a good idea.
I wasn’t clear, definitely not trying to get them to do more than what they want. It was more about how to relay what I want considering that it isn’t the usual rub and tug. If they don’t offer that, it’s all good. But I would like to know the best way to relay what I want.