Forgive me for the title and the post if it doesn’t follow established rules and terms, I’m still new to all this.
After the new year I’ve started frequenting AMPs. And I have had a good experience getting the typical L1 HJ experience. But I’m interested in more intimate services. Not FS, that doesn’t interest me much but more what I would call L2+. DFK, PM that isn’t rushed and rough, TUMA/DATO, and BBBJ.
I’ve managed to get FIMA easily enough but they are rushed and rough which hasn’t done anything for me. I want something slower and more methodical. Same with BJs. The one I’ve gotten has been a CBJ with plastic wrap and had so much teeth that it was not worth it.
I’m looking for something better. A slower and better FIMA or PM, and even what I consider the Holy Grail, a nice slow PM and DATO. Combined with either a BBBJ or a CBJ that isn’t just plastic wrap.
How have other mongers managed to get this? During the flip and deed I have become more direct in what I want but I still haven’t gotten exactly what I want. Does anyone have any tips? I am thinking about maybe going 90 min versus an HR and bringing my own flavored wrap, but does that plus more explicit instruction make sense or should I do something else? Is there anything that I should do with the wrap before hand? I’m in a medium sized city so these additional services aren’t advertised openly if that helps.
Yeah, I get that. I wasn’t as clear as I wanted to be. Let’s say that I did go to a place that did offer more than just HJs. How do I go about asking for something that isn’t the norm in the realm of L2 services?
Like I said, I have gotten a CBJ and know a place that does offer it. But my experience wasn’t that great the one time I did get it. Plastic wrap, too much teeth and no hint of putting the mouth anywhere else that I would want.
Definitely asking for it is the safer and more direct way of getting what I want, but there is also a fine line of not saying anything too directly to keep up the fiction. I’m sure most people at an AMP have never directly been verbally offered an HJ nor have they directly asked for one. It is all body language, euphemisms and understood actions between both the business and the provider. Is there something similar for this level of service that I could use?