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paddirn@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•I don't have a purpose in life and feel like a robot. This cannot be good for my mental health, but I don't know how or what to change. How do I change?English
6·1 year agoYou might try meetups around a hobby that you’re into (or interested in learning about). I always suggest boardgaming because it’s a relatively casual atmosphere for meeting people around an activity. There’s no pressure to carry on a conversation and you’re not dating these people, just meeting strangers for gaming. You usually still have to talk about the game and rules as you’re playing, so it gives you something in common to talk about. The rules provide structure if you’re socially awkward, so it’s maybe not as chaotic as just going to a party with a bunch of people there and trying to carry on random conversations. Meetup.com is what I’ve tried before and that worked well for me in my area (results may vary).
That’s just something to get you out of the house, pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone seems like the first thing you’d want to try doing. Getting out and meeting new people can help sometimes. It sounds like you’re in a rut, just sort of bored with everything, or at least wanting something more. Otherwise, maybe pick some sort of hobby or interest maybe you’ve though about before and just throw yourself into it if you have the time and/or money. Learn something new. Start an exercise routine or just start going on extended (30min) walks around your neighborhood. Start volunteering somewhere. Write in a journal. Just do something that’s not part of your typical routine that sparks some new mental connections for you.
And even though you don’t feel depressed, what you’re describing still could be a sign of depression, so reaching out for support is always an option that you shouldn’t feel ashamed of or anything.
Just throwing some stuff out there as ideas, but I hope everything works out well for you.
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•How a significant part of public opinion sees people on bikesEnglish
3·1 year agoALLAHU HANDLEBARS!!!
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politics @lemmy.world•Agenda 47: Alarm sounded about Trump’s dystopian plans for his second termEnglish
5·1 year agoYeah, no, we’re still going to walk into this, despite nothing about this sounding like it’s going to turn out well. Gee golly, there’s just nothing we can do about any of this. Not like we have a current sitting President with the effective powers of a king who could wield that power for the greater good. Nah, we’re just gonna do this. Hope it works out well.
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•College enrollment is falling at a ‘concerning’ rate, new data revealsEnglish
32·1 year agoCongratulations on pricing people out of a college education, have fun with that.
On one level, I sympathize with companies like Nintendo, I don’t want to, BUT companies are supposed to make efforts to protect their IP or they run the risk of losing those exclusive protections when it matters later on (abandonment). So if they want to continue their IP rights, they’re supposed to defend it against anything that comes along. I still don’t like it, but I kind of understand why they have to do it.
Granted, I think they could come up with some sort of licensing terms that would made it easy for solo developers to still develop small-time projects to encourage people to create these one-off labors of love, similar to what alot of TTRPG developers do, but for whatever reason, they go the hardball approach, which just creates bad feelings in the community.
https://www.themyerslg.com/blog/what-happens-if-you-dont-defend-your-ip/
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•MAGA supporter says if wife doesn't get pregnant during sex then it's 'gay sex'English
4·1 year agoThen call me gay, because I’m still gonna be fuckin’ (women) for awhile and I’m definitely not getting any more kids ever again. Guess I got to start marching in gay pride parades now, it’s like the law, isn’t it?
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Suppose we learn the CEO was killed over something ordinary and the shooter was a basic murderer. What does the reaction to this death say, if anything about this moment in history?English
14·1 year agoThat’s what I’ve been wondering, we really don’t even know what the motive was, but the one thing that kind of elevates this beyond him being a “basic murderer” is the carved words on the bullets. That seems to suggest some kind of motive above just him being a hitman or just killing some random person.
Regardless, I think most people are having the reaction they’re having to this because of our ridiculous healthcare system, everyone recognizes it as a problem and alot of people have a loved one who has been wronged by it. Almost any other issue would’ve created a partisan split where Republicans took one position and Democrats took the other position. That a set of clear Left/Right narratives haven’t emerged yet kind of suggests that alot of people aren’t particularly bothered by it. Where this goes though is anyone’s guess, maybe it’s just a single unified moment that is quickly overshadowed by some other bullshit that comes along.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Limits of negative online social contact that you'll accept?English
2·1 year agoThat’s kind of how I thought about it before, I didn’t want them to think they had gotten to me, that they had “won” the argument, but anymore I feel like I’m using it because I just don’t care to interact with them and I don’t want any incidental contact in the future. We disappear from each other’s online presence, I don’t have to think about them ever again. They can think they “won”, whatever, I’ve stopped thinking about them anymore.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Limits of negative online social contact that you'll accept?English
3·1 year agoThat “You” part was specifically something I was thinking about before I wrote this. It sounded odd when I first started thinking about it, but that often becomes the point when the other person starts making it personal. It’s one thing if a person says it as an example, “Would you be ok if this or this happened?” But if they’re personally directing it at me, whether name calling or accusing or something more confrontational, that’s where it usually crosses over.
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Does anyone else think the NYPD photos of the UHC CEO shooting suspect don’t match?English
1·1 year agoUnless he put the clothes in the backpack and put all of that into the other backpack, Backpackception! It sounds really silly though, like he purposely changed his clothes ever so slightly, just enough that a few people would call it out, instead of changing into a completely different outfit, which would’ve been more effective IMO. It’s just alot of work for little benefit, people come up with the weirdest theories.
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Does anyone else think the NYPD photos of the UHC CEO shooting suspect don’t match?English
19·1 year agoI keep seeing the backpack as not matching, I don’t get how these are considered the same person, unless is going to be the next blue-black white-gold thing.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•If you had the choice to be born would you have been born?English
1·1 year agoIf it was before I’d had my kids, probably. Now with my kids existing in the world, I’d essentially be deleting their existences too, so no.
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•Trump's climate and abortion policies have Americans flocking for vasectomiesEnglish
1·1 year agoAnd upon confirmation of my fertility, Lula, their chieftess (34DDD) takes me to her personal sanctuary inside of a rusted out old Greyhound bus on the edge of the ruins of old Cincinnati, close to the Forbidden zone.
Once inside, her personal servants cleanse my body of filth from the rigors of travel. As is tradition with their tribe, soap is applied directly to their nude bodies before being rubbed vigorously across my body.
After an extended cleaning session, and a pat down, I’m deemed acceptably clean for my first mating with Chieftess Lula, who will personally collect my sacred life juice, impregnating herself to produce the tribe’s next chieftess. After that, I would be given the rest of tribe, a slave to their every whim, expected to impregnate their finest, bustiest shield-maidens. I thank past-Me for never having gotten a vasectomy.
Stay tuned for the continued adventures of the Fallout Fuckboy, as he struggles to survive the She-Demons of Cincinnati!
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's your hot take on the Marvel cinematic Universe?English
41·1 year agoJames Gunn did great with Guardians of the Galaxy. I’m not sure many others could’ve pulled it off as well.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's your hot take on the Marvel cinematic Universe?English
142·1 year agoThe MCU has run out of steam after they got away from the A list heroes. It’s not that B- or C- list characters can’t do well, it’s just that it takes a talented writer/director to do it with a good movie, and Disney/Marvel just isn’t capable of getting that consistently on their own, they’re too safe & corporate. They’re just trying to recreate what made the original MCU run successful, but we’ve already seen that. I don’t know that there’s necessarily “superhero fatigue”, though trends in movies & pop culture come and go, that’s inevitable, but for me it’s more been “bad writing fatigue”, I’m just sick of their lazy ass shit writing, it’s insulting and I’m tired of being treated like that by the MCU.
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
News@lemmy.world•Trump's climate and abortion policies have Americans flocking for vasectomiesEnglish
674·1 year agoI can never get a vasectomy, I just can’t say what will happen in the future. Suppose there’s’ some sort of societal collapse, man becomes an endangered species, and I somehow end up captured by a tribe of busty amazonian women who want to use me as a breeder, just constant and frequent encounters with different women every night. However, they check to see if I’m still fertile and realize I had a vasectomy, then they kill me and eat me. I can’t take that chance.
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News@lemmy.world•Paulette Thompson Says Husband Received Threats 'Over Lack Of Coverage' Leading Up To ShootingEnglish
9·1 year agoLive by the Greed, Die by the Greed
paddirn@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the last post you started typing an answer to, thought about the replies you'd get and noped out of?English
3·1 year agoYeah, I try to limit it, but occasionally there will be some half-ass historical event or fact that I remember as part of my argument and I’ll go to look it up and realize the actual facts of the matter contradict whatever point I was trying to make. So then I just delete the comment and move on, “Well… I guess I didn’t have anything to say about that after all.”








Literally just drove past a car draped in Xmas lights the other day. Here in the US it varies by state, but in OH at least it doesn’t seem to be explicitly prohibited, just “recommended against”. The laws are more concerned with bright spotlights and flashing lights.
https://www.fox19.com/2024/12/12/is-it-legal-put-christmas-lights-your-car/?outputType=amp