Is there any reason why she doesn’t have a job? That is a big social experience. A job could help give purpose, and give opportunity to develop skills.

The suggestion of joining a sports league is a good one my wife and I play volleyball with some of her work friends and their spouses. Gets us together weekly to chat catch up, have a few drinks. It’s been wonderful for getting us out of the house.

Hopefully you can find something to help your wife become more independent.

40kg is about 88 lbs, and could be a significant enough amount of weight to lose for these changes.

I use OpenRGB to manage the msi mobo, corsair mouse, reddragon keyboard, and my reference amd gpu. Works pretty flawlessly. There is a comprehensive compatibility list for hardware to look at.

Please do read carefully on the hcl though. Previously the software in older versions was damaging the rgb controllers on some msi boards a few years back. It has since been resolved, but I’m not sure if there are any other possibly incompatible hardwares out there.

https://openrgb.org/

Blast it with piss!

Lies, /b/ was never good.