• johnthedoe@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Have a plan to both see each other regularly. And also have to set an end date where you’ll be together and no longer doing long distance.

    I had one and it worked out. We were able to meet once a month in each other’s city or a new city. We agreed that we’ll quit our jobs and travel the world for a while after she’s done with her studies. After that we’d return and move to a new city together and now married.

    We couldn’t have done it without having a good enough income to travel regularly but not tied down to move for each other. Without this end date it also wouldn’t have worked. We needed to work towards something.