• squaresinger@lemmy.world
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    6 个月前

    Listening in on conversations is creepy, no matter how good-looking a person is.

    And that stuff happens in movies doesn’t mean it isn’t creepy in real-life.

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      6 个月前

      Not really. If you were discussing with somebody about some terminal illness you were raising money for and somebody approached and said: “Sorry, but I overheard what you said and I’d love to donate, if that’s okay” that would not be creepy in the slightest.

      There is a difference between ‘overhearing’ and ‘purposefully spying’

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        6 个月前

        Well, OP wasn’t donating money, was he?

        The scenario you brought up would be creepy too, but people tend to value money over the slight discomfort of creepiness.

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          6 个月前

          In what world is it creepy to overhear somebody saying something in a public place? Have you ever been in a social situation before?

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            6 个月前

            In what world is it not creepy to butt into some strangers’ personal conversation after overhearing details that were clearly not addressed to you?

            Have you ever been in a social situation before?

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              There is context and nuance to everything. If you think this situation is ALWAYS creepy then I’m afraid you are objectively incorrect.

              Children walk up to each other on a playground and butt in and make friends happily. Why do you want us all to be boring robots that never interface?