hey, in the eyes of this woman (me) at least, you seem to be doing your best. keep holding the people you know accountable for bad actions. act when you see bad behavior… it might not be safe to confront the offender, if so, support the victim. it’s all you can do. in my opinion, you have no need to apologize for others… you can’t change or control what another person will do. you can only control what you do.