• SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    Until you approach another wrong one and you get another lecture for saying hi

    This shit is actually happening

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      and you get another lecture for saying hi

      I’ve never ever had that happen. And I’m old enough to have fucked your grandma when she was still young and cute.

      I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but I just don’t think it’s nearly as common as Lemmy likes to believe.

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      22 hours ago

      So walk away from them, or handle it gracefully somehow. It’s the same as trying to make a friend. Doesn’t everyone make friends from time to time?

      Interest + effort = relationship of any kind. Find the shared interest, make a little bit of effort… or don’t and the math doesn’t work. If romance doesn’t come, you’ve made a friend.

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        Enough negative experiences reinforce and define behavior.

        This is true for any being with a nervous system.

        IDK why you think every individual magically changing is something realistic.

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          Enough negative experiences reinforce and define behavior.

          Unless you don’t let them.

          IDK why you think every individual magically changing is something realistic.

          To be honest, it doesn’t sound like you want to change. You are so resistant to it.

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          19 hours ago

          it’s just that you’re fragile and a disgrace. it’s revolting. the fascists are taking over. grow some confidence. we need heroes, not insecure little boys. you know what will get you laid real quick? bashin the fash.

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            Yes, fragility is disgracefvll veakness. To defeat the enemy ze men mvst be strong, zey mvst be heroes, zey must have vill to seize vhat zey vant. It vill to pover zat vill tvrn little boys into strong men. Zis is antifascism.