It kindof makes you look like a bad parent when you use “Son is dead” article to voice your support of making sons do things. Like you saw this and felt you needed to defend yourself like the article was attacking you.

Parents should also teach their kids that there is a time and place for everything.

It should also be mentioned that you’re also ignoring that the father knew full well that there were safety concerns with the sub in question, as he had complained regarding regulators. This is just not the hill to die on. Like for every imaginary scenario you try to argue, this guy did much worse.

Like it should be the other way around, you should not want to compare yourself to this guy in any semblance.