• MagicShel@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    “Watch” implies visual media, but in my experience women read tons of smut while men tend to enjoy photos and videos. You need to include smut to make it interesting, I think, because that might at least leave some doubt as to the outcome.

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    1 year ago

    Less. I think movements against pornography have great points, so I rarely consume erotic or pornographic content now.

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      1 year ago

      Ok I get it there’s very few women on lemmy, but maybe we should be encouraging more to join/participate instead of keeping it as a kind of toxic boys-only club?

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        1 year ago

        I think there are definitely less women than men but probably more women than it seems like.

        I know I don’t mention I’m a woman unless it’s relevant, like this post. Sometimes, I’ll even purposefully use vague language or gender-neutral terms because I don’t want to get condescending interactions or feel like I have to be a perfect representation of a woman in order to dispel stereotypes.

        E.g. Although I love technology and tinker with a home lab and small Arduino projects, I’m not about to look like an absolute CS genius if someone feels like confirming a bias they have about women and CS skills.

        AKA “You like baseball?? Name every player on the Cubs twenty years ago then.”

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    1 year ago

    Cis-woman with female bits here. Sounds like I might be an odd one out, but I float between amateur video, digital hentai manga, and Literotica.

    I have to have porn of some sort to orgasm with my hitachi. I can orgasm manually without porn, but it’s not as full-body as the vibe orgasm, so I only do it this way when circumstances require it.

    I Netflix and chill myself maybe 2-3x a week, which is partially because it can take a while, and because other people, who aren’t my partner, need to be in another part of the house because the vibe is not silent.

    So that’s generally how much I use porn. 2-3x a week.

    To answer your question, if you mean the porn to bate session ratio is closer to 1:1, then I might win that over men because I use porn every time I jill off. If you mean a higher frequency of porn sessions, then men will probably win because I only DJ my EP a couple times a week.

    Side note: It seems like a lot of men can orgasm from photos, which is baffling to me. I can’t get to Planet Orgasm from that train. Maybe it’s different types of imagination versus a male v. female thing.

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      In my experience (which is limited, I don’t often ask friends about their mastubatory habits) most men have about a1:1 porn to masturbation ratio as well.

      It seems like a lot of men can orgasm from photos

      As in without any physical stimulation? I’m pretty sure that’s not very common, but I may be wrong.

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        Nah, with stimulation. I’m saying I can’t get all the way to an orgasm with just a photo so it amazes me that a lot of dudes can. Maybe my horny imagination is just broken.