• MissJinx@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    look you guys gotta understand that women’s orgasm is a bit different. We can have amazing sex and not orgasm and it’s ok. A woman can orgasm without even touching herself, that’s how “in the head” we are. Its good either way. If you really want to make her cum try oral.

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      5 months ago

      I’ve had a penis since birth and I can still have amazing sex without orgasming. For me it’s more a matter of habit. When I started having sex, I wanted to orgasm every time. As I got more experienced, I started enjoying all the other stuff in sex more, and I regularly have sex with my partner without orgasming - most of my orgasms now come from masturbation.

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    5 months ago

    I tried faking an orgasm once. It didn’t work. I’m a guy, and she instantly called my bluff.

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    5 months ago

    Pro tip for guys (by a guy): Always make sure she has at least one orgasm before you blow your load. Commit to oral and you’ll go a long way.