I’m one of the people who has very recently tried Lemmy and decided to drop Reddit. Initially because I will no longer be able to use SyncForReddit, but now also because I just like the vibe a lot more here than Reddit.

I’m not a massively technical person, but I understood the broad concept of federation - different instances/servers that sync to form a big conversation/forum of sorts.

I heard a lot of people joining and saying positive things about lemmy.world, so I signed up there…and that’s it.

But, am I using it right? Is the idea to sign up in one place and use it to participate across the LemmyVerse/FediVerse? Or should I be seeking out lots of niche instances of interest?

I hear lemmy.world is the biggest instance. What if most people end up here, does that defeat the purpose? Is this inevitable?

You need a critical mass of users, so a quiet instance with few posts is not attractive. If I search for Xbox, there are lots of empty places or places with 3 posts. If there’s one big one (often ends up being in lemmy.world) that’s where I’m subscribing.

How are you using Lemmy, are you participating in a bunch of instances or just one?

  • Rottcodd@kbin.social
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    When I first started looking around here, I had no particular reason to pick one instance, so I didn’t. I initially registered with three (kbin.social, lemmy.world and lemmy.one). I was sort of planning to try them out and compare them before settling on one, but I ended up just rotating through them as the mood hit me, and I still use all three. And in fact, I’m planning on adding a couple more.

    The thing I like about using multiple instances is that I can change my experience quickly and easily.

    Mostly I go back and forth between kbin.social and lemmy.world, and they’re notably different. In the first place, they use different software, so the interfaces are quite different. The kbin software is a bit more feature rich but also a bit harder to get around in while the lemmy software is a bit simpler in both respects. And the instances are notably different, since .world is federated with virtually everyone while kbin.social has defederated from a number of instances, and most notably all of the botfarms.

    So kbin.social has less content of generally higher quality, so it feels more serious and sedate, while lemmy.world has more content but a lot of it is botspam, so it feels more hectic and noisy. And I just go to whichever one appeals to me more at the moment.

    And I’m actually looking for a couple more. I’d like to find one that’s deliberately reserved and sort of scholarly - high standards and serious discussion - and one that’s overtly goofy snd lighthearted.

    And I have no doubt that if they don’t exist, they will.

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    Image Transcription: Text and Image

    [An interconnected diagram with six cloud-shaped bubbles with text and images of the reddit mascot snoo in them are shown. There are lines going between them connecting all of the bubbles to one another in the approximate shape of the fediverse pentagram logo. The top left bubble says “r/aww” and has two images of the reddit mascot. The upper middle bubble has the text “r/gaming” and “r/Music” with one image of the mascot. The top right bubble says “r/funny” with one mascot, the lower left says “r/Pics” and “r/science” with one mascot, the lower right says “r/art” and “r/ask science” with two mascots, and the bottom centre bubble has the words “r/space” and r/videos" with one reddit mascot. The Lemmy logo, a black and white cartoon mouse head, sits in the bottom left corner of the image. Below the web of connected bubbles, there are three small cartoon drawings of people standing next to each other, with the text “Lemmy devs” beside them, and a large purple speech bubble above them that reads as follows]

    We donated Lemmy to the world, we can’t control what people do with it.


    ^I’m a human volunteer transcribing posts in a format compatible with screen readers, for blind and visually impaired users!^

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    I personally host my own instance, from which I interact with communities on many other instances.

    This ensures my Lemmy account can’t just be decimated because my admin decided to stop maintaining their instance and I avoid defederation that can block content I’m interested in (including the infighting among larger instances.)

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      Out of curiosity, what’s the disk usage from hosting your own instance like? My concern with self hosting is it’ll quickly run out of control. I don’t want to dedicate hundreds of gigabytes to a lemmy instance.

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      Yeah that’s what I’m planning to do as well. Do you know if there’s a way to transfer my current lenny.world account to my private instance, whenever I get around to it?

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    Just a heads up, LJ the Dev of Sync for Reddit is doing Sync for Lemmy. I’ve been a Sync user for years now and am excited to see his version of Lemmy.

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    I’d argue one of the most pressing concerns right now is the lack of migration tools

    Currently you can’t just create an account on instance X and move to Y. You need to create a new account. Eventually if we get the functionality to migrate from one place to another, people will be able to spread out across the fediverse and the risk of a single big server going belly up reduced.

    From a technical standpoint if one instance gets defederated from other instances, all the users on that instance are stuffed. Their content won’t appear in the wider fediverse (so less engagement)

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      I’d like to see some sort of export/import functionality as well. Instances will come and go, and it would suck for people on those to just lose their stuff with out having a way to back up/restore it.

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      A lot of the fediverse reminds me of usenet and usenet was destroyed by spam. (Not by september(s).)

      For my own purposes as a flesh n blood user I agree with you. However when I consider spam and its modern descendants, idk. Would it then be the case that any spam (etc) instance could just transport all its “user” data to a new instance?

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      Currently you can’t just create an account on instance X and move to Y. You need to create a new account.

      I don’t see how that’s a problem. It’s entirely painless to create a new account or to switch between accounts. I do it all the time.

      I guess if a particular instance folds, I’ll lose the stuff I posted there, but I don’t see how that’s a problem either. I’ve written countless thousands of forum posts over almost thirty years, and the vast majority of them are undoubtedly gone. What difference does it make? I didn’t write them in some vain bid for some sort of immortality - I wrote them because there were specific things I wanted to say at specific moments, and because I enjoy writing. So they’ve already served their purpose.

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        There are different ways of relating to online content.

        In some contexts I am more motivated to make contributions when I have reason to believe they will be persistent for years. I post on forums that have been around for 20+ years, where I search for things and come up with posts from that whole time. So when I write on there I kind of do it with care because I am thinking of people in the future who will find my stuff.

        OTOH there is also a place for ephemeral communications. That is the whole draw of snapchat for example. The promise this will be deleted soon. Whether that is true or not is another thing… But people do want it sometimes.

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    We’re all figuring this out as we go! Since the great Reddit migration, we’ve already seen our first big drama with the Beehaw defederation. Some Beehaw users disagreed and left for other instances while users of other instances liked the move and joined Beehaw. The Lemmy fediverse is what WE make it for better or for worse.

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      i don’t blame them for not welcoming redditors. they weren’t on reddit for a reason, and now there’s an influx of redditors making a lot of changes.

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        Sure, but I don’t think beehaw’s philosophy suits the fediverse very well. They want to create a safer space where discussion and disagreement is encouraged, but more closely policed. Which makes sense for a closed system - not one where “unpoliced” users can interact with your community. Otherwise you end up playing server whack-a-mole… exactly like beehaw has done.

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          Otherwise you end up playing server whack-a-mole

          That’s always been a thing in the fediverse. Most instances have a rather large blacklist to block out stuff such as nazi subs and racist subs and worse.

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          Sure, but I don’t think beehaw’s philosophy suits the fediverse very well.

          And what exactly is “fediverse philosophy” according to you? You should probably define that first before saying something like this and see if other people actually agree with it.

          I think beehaw’s policy is frankly the only one that makes sense for a fediverse - after all, the more freedom there is on the platform, the more work there has to be put in to maintain the high quality of content and users without getting overrun by trolls, extremists and bad faith actors. I wish other instances were as rigorous when it comes to moderation and user curation otherwise it’s just a matter of time before this becomes more like 4chan than what it is rn.

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          I don’t think beehaw doesn’t fit the fediverse, I do believe it doesn’t fit every user.

          As I understand it, they want to be a safe place for a very specific audience, that is, people afraid to be harassed for who they are, that could also include people with extreme social anxiety, that’s why it’s so heavily policed and they defederate from a lot of other instances.

          It’s like having a heavily moderated subreddit, you wouldn’t say it doesn’t fit reddit just because they don’t accept contribution from everyone.

          The purpose of the fediverse is to have things spread out so one or few nodes dying doesn’t affect the entire system, it’s also about avoiding corporate control, the same principles on which the internet was founded.

          I don’t think it means having to trust everyone or accepting everyone into your local group.

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            The purpose of the fediverse is to have things that are spread out and can talk to each other, right?

            My point was only beehaw trying to cultivate a safe space that is closely policed isn’t easily compatible with that baked-in interaction with other spaces which they can’t police. Unless they play server whack-a-mole.

            And then once large instances are cut off because they contain too many users to police when they interact on beehaw.org - what’s the point in being part of the fediverse? Why not just be any other type of link aggregating forum?

            It would make a little more sense if you could defederate unilaterally (i.e. non beehaw members cannot post on beehaw, but beehaw members can go interact on other instances). But as far as I understand that’s not how it works.

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              (i.e. non beehaw members cannot post on beehaw, but beehaw members can go interact on other instances). But as far as I understand that’s not how it works.

              It depends, you believe that’s not how it works because you’re thinking of both sides defederating each other, but defederation is one-side.

              For example, beehaw defederated from lemmy.world but lemmy.world didn’t defederate from beehaw, so lemmy.world people cannot participate on beehaw but beehaw can participate on lemmy.world.

              It’s actually a bit more complicated than that, since lemmy.world people can still participate in beehaw discussions but only lemmy.world people would see those comment, I think also other instances that are not defederated can but I’m not sure about this.

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    I signed up on a smaller instance and only follow a couple of communities there, so I had to go out and search for things I was interested in. I pretty much just subscribed to anything that sounded remotely interesting, figuring I could leave later.

    i mostly found stuff with https://browse.feddit.de/ and https://lemmyverse.net/, as well as just going to the bigger instances and looking at the local lists for anything interesting. So I’m following communities across several of the larger severs - lemmy.world, lemmy.ml, beehaw.org, kbin.social, sh.itjust.works, lemmy.ca - and a few smaller ones that sounded interesting or relevant. Also fedidb.org is a nice tool to see info about the fediverse in general, including stats on Lemmy and Kbin servers.

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    It only really matters for the “local” feed which instance you choose. I don’t really see much point to that one honestly, except if you’re on something like startrek.website where “local” is “show me all star trek stuff”, or something similar.

    And yes, it is important to spread out the user base across multiple servers and not all end up on lemmy.world.

    So I’d say find some smaller instance, maybe with a community actually physically local to you, and make that your main one. Or don’t and stay on lemmy.world, I’m not your dad.

    Perpetual plug to my userscript which changes all links to point to your home instance to make this even easier :)

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    The idea is you can subscribe and interact with any instances, no matter what instance you came from

    Sure, most will jump the bandwagon into lemmy.world… at least for the near future. I can say that with confidence because when you search “how to join Lemmy”, most guide will point you to Lemmy.world instead of… lets say… coughLemmynsfwcough

    Over time, some will eventually move to other instance (mostly just the account, because they want ‘cool username’ for themselves). Sooner or later, things will balance themselves out.

    Maybe you can even start by deploying your own instance, for no other reason than claiming your own ‘cool username’.

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      most guide will point you to Lemmy.world instead of… lets say… coughLemmynsfwcough

      Quiet everyone! Let this person talk!

      Please tell us of this magical place…

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        Sadly I’m pretty sure it’s full of beheadings, not the fun kind of NSFW. But I’m sure soon enough someone will create a lemmy.porn or something.

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    I’m trying out using my lemmy instance as a personal blog, more or less.

    I have one community with pretty locked down settings and super SFW policy. Over time I will post things that might be of interest or that I want to show off. I selectively subscribe to some other communities on larger instances to get some visibility and be part of the conversation. But really Im using lemmy to drive traffic to my custom domain and as a way to SEO.

    I have another personal use account on another instance I don’t own but that I align with philosophically. That’s where I keep my main collection of communities Im interested in.

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    Alright so I have a question and can’t figure out a better place to post it than this comment thread.

    Kbin is neat and I’ve enjoyed it a reasonable amount for the past week or so. But 80% of my feed is either news and discussion about how bad Reddit is (I know, guys!), memes about about Reddit, and depressing climate change articles that make me panic about things I can’t change. How do I filter stuff like this out of my feed on Fediverse communities?

    Thanks.

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      Reddit is a hot topic of discussion right now for completely obvious reasons. That will probably die down in the next couple weeks but I think there’s going to be another influx of refugees on the 1st when the 3rd party apps go dark.

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      In a way, it’s just like reddit. Subscribe to magazines and then switch your feed to Subscribed. It takes a bit to get a full, diverse feed, but then you’ll be filtering by the things you like. Alternately, you can go to the magazines page and block the ones you don’t want to see.

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        Ahh, this is helpful. I looked at my kbin settings page and there isn’t an option to hide magazines, so I thought the feature might not exist. Thanks!

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      Oh my god, same issue here. I’m just ready to use Lemmy (or KBin, or anything) and not constantly read how much better it is than Reddit and how Reddit is going down a death spiral. Let’s just move on and provide our own content.

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    I’m on kbin.social. When I browse the tag “All”, I can see all Lemmy communities that federate with kbin.social and all kbin magazines that federate with kbin.social (including those belonging to kbin.social). It’s very seamlessly, and at some point you don’t realise you’re commenting in a post from a different server. But you can also browse those communities and/or magazines you’re subscribed to, in a similar fashion to Reddit.

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    Instances can defederate. For instance, lemmy.world was defederated from beehaw because of a bot influx. So if you liked what was on beehaw you’d need another account there.

    But generally you only need one account in one instance to see most everything.

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      So pretty much right now I can’t see any content on beehaw correct? Or can I just not interact with anything from there?

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        Right now, until such time as they feel like they have the mod team/tools to handle the influx, you won’t be able to see any new posts or comments from Beehaw or its users.

        There are old pre-defederation threads from maybe a week or so ago that you could even comment in, but no one on Beehaw’s side would be able to read it until they refederate because your instances aren’t passing that information between each other.

        If you both comment on a post from a neutral instance, both of you can see and interact with every other user, but you shouldn’t be able to see each other.

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        Since lemmy.world didn’t defederate from beehaw you can still see posts and comments. But if you go to make a comment on a post from beehaw people on that instance won’t be able to see or respond, only people from your instance or other federated instances. Hopefully that explanation helped, it’s hard for me to explain some things through text.

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    I generally scroll through either local or everything sorted by “New Comments”. That’s why I’m replying to this two month old post, because someone else did, so it rose to the top. Feels like a combination of Reddit and a classic forum where you’d have posts that would get bumped by activity.